Non-traditional Christmas
12/27/09Merry Christmas, Fei! We didn't have much of traditional Christmas this time, but we'll try to do better next year. I guess you are still too young to actually undertand anyway, your life circles pretty tightly around your own belly and you're happy as long as your little needs are taken care of.
One huge difference between your mom and I is that since she's from China, she has never actually celebrated Christmas, or even her birthday. They just don't do that in China, or at least didn't do when she was growing up.
Since your mom hasn't experienced the excitement of birthday or Christmas, she just doesn't think of it the same way as I do. For example, we bought a lot gifts for you both for birthday and for Christmas but she was just way too excited about it to wait for the actual days and you basically got to open some gift boxes almost every day during December!
I must say it wasn't entirely her fault either. Since you learned to love opening gifts you became pretty good at spotting them and a few times it happened that you just walked to us with a wide smile on your face, holding a gift box and saying "Open, open!" Next year we're going to have actually hide the gifts!
This obviously meant that when your birthday came, we didn't actually have any gift prepared for you. Fortunately we found a really cool remote controlled racing car from the Ferrari Store in Serravalle that you absolutely loved - problem solved, that would be your birthday gift!
For Christmas we figured we won't need to have gifts, but on the very last moment we decided to go to the kids section in a local department store and picked some books and Disney movies for you and had them gift wrapped, so we actually had some gifts to open on Christmas too.
Our Christmas meals were mostly Chinese, definitely not traditional Christmas food. I bought a Christmas cake and some cookies, but that's all. In the spirit of the season though, we've been eating a lot.
On the Christmas eve, after opening some of the gifts, I made some yummy Finnish pancakes (known around the world as Swedish pancakes...), and then we all crawled in warm blankets to watch Mickey Mouse's Christmas Carol. While watching the movie, we ate the pancakes with ice cream and fresh berries. We had strawberries, raspberries and blueberries, but you seem to think they're all called strawberries!
Our theory is that you think the other names just mean the same in different languages... since we also had cherries and bananas, which you have no problem naming correctly.
You loved the movie so much you didn't want to sleep at all, you just wanted to see it over and over again! It was Christmas after all, so we let you get your wish, which kind of backfired later when you got too tired and cranky but because of all the excitement couldn't fall asleep. Still, it was a really family moment that I will remember for a long time.
One huge difference between your mom and I is that since she's from China, she has never actually celebrated Christmas, or even her birthday. They just don't do that in China, or at least didn't do when she was growing up.
Since your mom hasn't experienced the excitement of birthday or Christmas, she just doesn't think of it the same way as I do. For example, we bought a lot gifts for you both for birthday and for Christmas but she was just way too excited about it to wait for the actual days and you basically got to open some gift boxes almost every day during December!
I must say it wasn't entirely her fault either. Since you learned to love opening gifts you became pretty good at spotting them and a few times it happened that you just walked to us with a wide smile on your face, holding a gift box and saying "Open, open!" Next year we're going to have actually hide the gifts!
This obviously meant that when your birthday came, we didn't actually have any gift prepared for you. Fortunately we found a really cool remote controlled racing car from the Ferrari Store in Serravalle that you absolutely loved - problem solved, that would be your birthday gift!
For Christmas we figured we won't need to have gifts, but on the very last moment we decided to go to the kids section in a local department store and picked some books and Disney movies for you and had them gift wrapped, so we actually had some gifts to open on Christmas too.
Our Christmas meals were mostly Chinese, definitely not traditional Christmas food. I bought a Christmas cake and some cookies, but that's all. In the spirit of the season though, we've been eating a lot.
On the Christmas eve, after opening some of the gifts, I made some yummy Finnish pancakes (known around the world as Swedish pancakes...), and then we all crawled in warm blankets to watch Mickey Mouse's Christmas Carol. While watching the movie, we ate the pancakes with ice cream and fresh berries. We had strawberries, raspberries and blueberries, but you seem to think they're all called strawberries!
Our theory is that you think the other names just mean the same in different languages... since we also had cherries and bananas, which you have no problem naming correctly.
You loved the movie so much you didn't want to sleep at all, you just wanted to see it over and over again! It was Christmas after all, so we let you get your wish, which kind of backfired later when you got too tired and cranky but because of all the excitement couldn't fall asleep. Still, it was a really family moment that I will remember for a long time.
Lotta: I love the idea of having a blog for Fei! He's such a cutie too!
12/27/09
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Ari: Yes, really nice. It is good to write down the feelings and thoughts at the very moments. Which languages are you going to learn to Fei?
12/27/09
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Jani: We speak English, Chinese and Finnish to him, though English is the main language as that's what Wen and I use to communicate with each other. We also hope he learns to speak German and French if we live in Switzerland for longer...
12/27/09
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Ari: Great because it is (as you know) a richness to know as many languages as you can learn. But Chinese writing....
12/28/09
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Wen: Actually I feel Chinese words are easier then western words for babies, Chinese looks like pictures, easier to remember. but western words are just letters which looks like make no sense together.
12/29/09
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Wen: Also the fact is Chinese babies learn Chinese words faster and earlier than western babies learn western words (at least the very early ages).
12/29/09
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Wen: but we haven't really try to teach Fei Chinese words yet. but lots of chinese babies this age can read lots of chinese words already. but write will be much lataer ofcouse, hehe...
12/29/09
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Ari: Wow, I did not know that they could read already something at so young age. It must be so that the writing marks are more clear than the written letters.
12/29/09
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Wen: Yes! it's called "Pictograph". Babies can remember pictuers much easier!
12/29/09
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Emilia: Hahaha this is so funny to me. It's so cute that he knows what a present is, and I think it is so interesting that you're combining cultures in the context of the holiday. Cute photos!
12/27/09
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Lotta: At least our neighbour's (Finnish) baby was at some point speaking more Chinese than Finnish. She's one years old and has Chinese ayi. It's so awesome to see how her speaking developes. She sais f.ex. mama and baba - not äiti and isä. Also she sais Zhe ge, not tämä or tuo. In baby language it's called tökö, though
12/29/09
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Ari: Hehe, tökö sounds Finnish as well as Chinese. But e.g.mamaand baba are much easier for a child to pronounce than äiti or isä. Many Chinese words are short and quite easy to pronounce. At least I think so. Hmm, maybe I didn't grow up yet either..?
12/29/09
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Wen: Yes, Chinese speaking also easier. Lots of chinese babies befor 2 years can say lots of long sentences already, Western sentences are more difficult too. Fei's first word was "mama" when he maybe around half year old.
12/29/09
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Ari: True. Which is easier; wan an or hyvää yötä?
12/29/09
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Wen: hehe, Fei says "night night", he always pick the easier one...
12/29/09
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Ari: Clever.
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